Saturday, December 10, 2011

Sex Positions for F/F and Poly Amorous Couples



So I was reminded that I completely neglected two groups of people in the post yesterday: lesbians and polyamorous couples.


Ooopppsss.


So here's my attempt at making up for that (sorry peeps!!)



Bivulvia

Vulva to vulva: a kneeling scissors position for two vulva's.
a form of non-penetrative sex in which a woman rubs her vulva against her partner's body for sexual stimulation. This may involve female-to-female genital contact or a female rubbing her vulva against her partner's thigh, stomach, buttocks, palm, arm, or other body part (excluding the mouth). A variety of sexual positions are recorded, not least the missionary position, as well as others.[1][4][5][6] The term is sometimes used to refer to a masturbation technique in which a woman rubs her vulva against an inanimate object such as a bolster to achieve orgasm. The term is most often used in the context of lesbian sex.Among women who have sex with women, tribadism is a common sexual practice.[1][6][11][12][13][14] Though the term is usually applied to the act of vulva-to-vulva stimulation, it encompasses a variety of sexual activity. In addition to the commonly titled "scissoring" motion, tribadism may involve a missionary position, a woman on top position, a doggy style position and others,[2] or simple movement of the woman's vulva against her partner's thigh, stomach, buttocks, palm, arm, or another body part.[2][4] It may be accompanied by penetration of a partner with fingers or a dildo; and so sometimes "mutuality and reciprocation tend not to be the main objective, although satisfaction for both partners through different means most definitely is its aim."[11] Lesbians who prefer tribadism for sexual stimulation report enjoyment of whole-body contact, the experience of timing hip movement and feeling their partner's motions without manual stimulation, which is considered "very erotic" and a much easier way to achieve orgasm due to direct clitoral stimulation.[1][15]
Some lesbian and bisexual women object to the term "scissoring," as they do not partake in this particular aspect of the activity and attribute it more to the male fantasies of the heterosexual porn industry.[16][17][18] "Scissoring" is often used as an umbrella term for all genital-to-genital forms of tribadism, and many lesbian and bisexual women are unaware that some of the sexual acts they include in their lovemaking are aspects of tribadism, as tribadism is commonly omitted from mainstream sex research.[11][14] Judith Halberstam, in her book Female Masculinity, stated, "If we trace the use of the term forward into present, we find that tribadism is one of those rarely discussed but often practiced sexual activities, and the silence that surrounds it now is as puzzling as the discourse it produced in earlier centuries." She added that Sigmund Freud had nothing to say on the subject, and few contemporary lesbian sex books even discuss it.[11]
According to older studies, approximately one-third of lesbian women used tribadism, or body contact, as a means of achieving orgasm (Saghir & Robins, 1973; Jay & Young, 1977).[12] Masters and Johnson's 1979 study on lesbian sexual practices found that vaginal penetration with dildos is rare, and that lesbians tend to do more overall genital stimulation than direct clitoral stimulation, which is also often the case for heterosexual relationships.[13] In 1987, a non-scientific study (Munson) was conducted of more than 100 members of a lesbian social organization in Colorado. When asked what techniques they used in their last 10 lovemaking sessions, 100% were for kissing, sucking on nipples, and manual stimulation of the clitoris; more than 90% reported French kissing, oral sex, and fingers inserted into the vagina; and 80% reported tribadism.[6]




(For the M/F/M) Vaginal/anal. One man lies down on his back, and you mount him, inserting his penis into your vagina. The second man then comes up behind you and penetrates your anus. For maximum comfort and pleasure, arrange to take the larger penis into your vagina and the smaller one into your anus. Warning: this position may not be suitable for extremely insecure men because they will almost certainly feel each other's movements when they're both inside you. (http://dodsonandross.com/blogs/svetlana-ivanova/2010/01/3-best-positions-mfm-threesomes)



(For the M/M/M+-Can also have a female or two thrown in here or even all female, just substitute real cocks for dildos) 
Gang Bang is very much linked to the idea of the submissive role of one person “used” by a “gang” ofactive sexual partners. For many bottom guy this is a fantasy related to the idea if being dominated by several partners in a row. There’s nothing masochistic in this in my opinion. Actually I truly believe this is a fully narcisitic desire, as the person really is  at the center of the action by being possessed by all the others in the gang. Seen from the distance in a porn movie this may not seem the case. But in my personal experience such an activity raised its aesthetical principle to pure exposure of one person at the center of everything.


The story is simple. My first boyfriend talked me about this fantasy of him bottoming in a orgy where several people would fuck him in a row. For his 30th birthday I was looking for a special present for him… so I decided to go for this fantasy. A mutual friend had the right place to plan it (a nice “dungeon” room with a sling). So it was just a matter of carefully selecting the right participants (a total of 7).
Gang BangResult was overwhelming. Party started at 10 pm about, and the sun was rising when last cock was unloaded. But the overall scene under my eyes was exactly that of a King (or a Queen some would say) at the center of the attention of everybody else.
Beside my personal experience, a Gang Bang can be a really hot experience. 
Gang Bang: Doggie Style VersionBest Setting is of course with a sling, but there’s also the option to lay on a table, or on the floor. Best Position for the Gang Bang is of course the Deep Anal Penetration, although also the Oyster position is possible (especially if laying on the ground) or theDoggie Style. In this last case the anal act can also be accompanied by an oral act, thus making it a threesome. In any case the overall feeling of the act should be of a dominating experience therefore we’re talking of hard fucking here. A good amount of lubing is therefore vital. Sometime also somebondage can be used to refrain the bottom guy from escaping the gang:-)
Gang Bang: game over
Basically it’s all about this: fucking the guy then leaving the room to the next top and so on.
There are two alternatives for what concerns the “cum” part. The first is to have each member of the gang fuck the bottom until cumming, then leaving the room to the next one. This version is a sort of “rapist” serial activity, which can be a lot of fun. Especially because if the group is quite vital and bog, the first in the row will probably feel horny again when the last one is over, and could start the fuck again.
A second option is to leave a kind of bukkake  at the end. When the last one is fucking, all the others would just unload their jizz on the bottom’s body.
Which one to prefer? You choose… it very much depends. First option makes it a full anal experience. Second involves a bit of jerkoff.




Happy Spangkingz!!!
The Dom

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